I’m just looking.

That means: Please, please don’t put pressure on me.

When you go to a store and the clerk approaches, the less you want is to feel like you are being played or forced into a decision.

But how about life? Do you walk your days just looking? Are you trying to tell life (and any agent in it) to back off because you don’t want to be forced into anything? Maybe you started a few years ago stalling any fatal decision. Maybe your belief system took over and now is steering the wheel. “Let’s keep you safe”, he says, but you are feeling more and more isolated. And at the end of the day you, and your life, amounts to nothing.

One way to break this dynamic is setting a tangible intent on what you should accomplish. Intent gives you clarity. And it may work or not. But you will KNOW. With that knowledge you will be able to correct course.

How to start? Just ask yourself what is the kind of person you want to be?